If you want to become successful, you have to let go of your fears. Seriously, there’s no other way. Otherwise, you will wake up one day & realise that you allowed your life through slip through your fingers. Simply because you were afraid. That would be tragical…

Well, the funny thing is, fear is nothing more than a state of mind & we are absolutely able to control it! Listen, you have all the power within you to make a switch and make all your wildest dreams come true, but you have to stop being so afraid. Right this minute.

Let me help you out.

Let’s take a look at seven most common fears that are currently holding you back from reaching your full potential & let me prove that you can beat every single one of them.

Judgement

Stop doubting yourself, you’re awesome! Who cares what others might think! Constantly waiting for the approval from others is the worst thing you can do for yourself and you should stop thinking about it right this minute. You don’t need their approval.

Not giving a damn about other people’s opinion is the most revealing thing and can really open so many doors for you. If you need that extra push, I’d suggest reading You Do You by Sarah Knight. Seriously, this book is going to kick your ass and you know you need that push!

Failure

Let me be honest with you- if you’re ready to go ahead and make that leap in your life- you might end up failing completely and regretting your decisions. Yes, that is a possibility. You’re absolutely right to be afraid to lose what you have right now, but the thing is- I would rather fail completely trying that stay in one place for the rest of my life without even taking a chance to know who I might have become.

Look, that’s life. With all its ups and downs, failure what makes it exciting! Every mistake you’re going to make most probably is going to bring you closer to where you’re meant to be and I can assure you will be happy to say that at least you were brave enough to try!

Lack Of Control

Alright, I’m with you on this one. I’m a complete control freak and I hate when things are not going my way. However, lack of control can also be amazing. Seriously, when you know that you can not be in charge of everything in your life, you actually end up being more chilled.

For instance, if you decide to start a blog and give running an online business a try, you will soon realise that you can not know that a piece of content you’ll be working on for days is going to pick up. The great thing is, the post can also go viral and you’ll end up making more money in a month than you’ve made in your whole last year combined. You see, lack of control can sometimes be the best thing that will ever happen to you!

Privacy

If you’re afraid to put yourself out there are you’re afraid of losing your privacy, let me ask you… Who are you?! Kim Kardashian? Seriously, get over yourself! You’re completely fine and you are the one that’s completely in charge of what you share in the online world. Simply don’t share what you’re not comfortable, at the end of the day, no-one is forcing you!

Getting Hurt

If you become successful, you’ll most probably end up having quite a few mean comments about you. I know it can hurt. You might even have a little poor party & find yourself crying in the pillow. It’s not nice, I get it. Sadly, we can’t get rid of internet trolls that easily, but we can understand that they have nothing against us.

I personally think that haters are haters for a reason. First of all, they most probably hate their lives to bits. You see, I’m pretty excited to do what I do and I really value my time because of this. I simply do not have a free minute to go online and spread mean comments on others. That’s simply sad. You shouldn’t listen to people like this for even a second!

Overwhelment

What’s the secret of success? Well, you have to work hard, pull a couple of all-nighters, invest in your rent money into your business and simply take risks. You might end up feeling exhausted, failed and not worthy, but you see, my friend, sometimes it takes an overwhelming breakdown to have an undeniable breakthrough. That’s the secret.

Change

Change is exciting, yet it can also be super scary, huh? The thought of making a life change can be so intimidating that even though you want to be the master of your own destiny you’ll end up doing nothing or settling for less than you deserve simply because you’re so afraid of that change. But do you really want to let fear stop you from living your life to its full potential? I don’t think so.

For some reason, change is one thing I was never afraid of. You see, I know that by moving forward, I always can take that step back at any point if I want to. It’s always there. Always. I know, change can be painful, but nothing is as painful as staying stuck somewhere you don’t belong.

Seriously, stop being so afraid! Go ahead and live your life! Risk, fall in love, travel, lose all your money, learn, grow, earn, come back to where you’ve started, but don’t settle for things that do not make you happy. You’re always one step away from living your dream life!

Let me know what are YOUR biggest fears? What are you afraid of losing or what do you think is holding you back from making those big decisions in your life?